……..Just stay home!
Yeah, actually those three words are my best advice about Christmas shopping. Trust me, I know these things! After sixty-three years of marriage and the age that implies, I have tested all methods of Christmas shopping. Of course, that was before online shopping, which I love. Back to the subject.
I first published this blog December 2, 2013. This morning I realized I was beginning to have the same thoughts about Christmas shopping and suddenly remembered my own Excellent Advice. So here it is again.
I love numbers. After my husband served 6 years in military service; after 5 years of his undergraduate studies; after many years of his graduate studies; after 3 children, (all this time with 0 discretionary funds), I finally began to notice a singular truth about my shopping: If I went out of the house I would spend money! That’s it! It was as simple as that! To resist the urge to shop, I would make a cup of coffee, grab a cookie, and wait for the urge to pass….and it would pass. Yay! Just think how much money I saved today, I would think. Perhaps the thought of taking three little children along with my shopping trip had something to do with deciding to “…just stay home.” Maybe.
Fast forward to today with the convenience of online shopping at my fingertips. Remember I said that I love it. Well, I’ve learned something about that, too; If I fill out all the necessary information in the Shopping Cart…i.e. the mailing address, credit card number, on and on, I’ll probably make a mistake and have to delete the whole thing. I’m usually so aggravated and bored by that time, I go find something else more fun to do. Yay! Just think how much money I saved today.
Recently while shopping online at a fancy store website, I came to the final bottom line stating the cost, it was really low….yes LOW! I thought how can that be? I just ordered some expensive items, jackets, sweaters, etc. I pondered this for a while and decided to start over by going back to the home page of the store. Oh! I see it now….in big bold letters it read “EVERYTHING 70% OFF TODAY.” That answered my question and confirmed my growing suspicion that I am the world’s worst shopper. Yes, I started over and bought all the same things I wanted as before. Oops! I didn’t save any money that day.
You might also find it helpful to know that if you are traveling with all your children and you are on a tight budget……don’t stop the car……ever! It will cost you money if you do. I’ve tested that theory before, in fact, we’ve lived it. However, I’ll admit it is a little difficult if you are trying to get to Lubbock, Texas from Houston, Texas in one day. At last count it is almost 600 miles.
Friends, that is the extent of my shopping advice gleaned through hard-earned experience and a lot of fun. Get a cup of coffee and a cookie….and wait.
Merry Christmas, one and all. Praise Him as we celebrate His birthday.
“The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen His glory,
the glory of the One and Only, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth.”
John 1:14
‘Till He Shouts!
Shopping not my favorite thing but getting out of the house is necessary for my general health so I combine the two for medical reasons! Christmas Blessings to you and David and families.
Kathy, A good idea…and I understand the “necessary for my general health” comment. Best wishes for a glorious Christmas for all the Scharers.
Sound advice; I have used it before.
Good for you. In fact, I’ve put off shopping for a new outfit for all the upcoming festivities this week to realize I already have a suitable outfit in my closet. Worked again!
Very cute, Adele! Unfortunately, we pretty much have to shop for presents before Christmas Day, if we are lucky enough to have special people in our lives. This reminds me of my sweet, now departed mother. I have always hated to shop. She would actually shop for clothes for me, bring them home, I would try them on, if they fit keep them, if not she would take them back and start over. She thought it was hilarious that I have three daughters who love to shop, and, for many years, I had to take them! I am a very efficient shopper, though. I know what I want, go into the store, buy it, and out I go! Buying online is even better!
Much love and Merry Christmas to you and David. May we never forget the reason for this glorious season, our Lord and Savior!
Donna
Again, Donna, we discover how alike we think .