Adele’s Excellent Christmas Shopping Advice


….Just stay home!

Yeah, actually those three words are my best advice about Christmas shopping. Trust me, I know these things! After sixty-six years of marriage and the age that implies, I have tested all methods of Christmas shopping. Of course, that was before online shopping, which I love. Back to the subject. I published this blog a few times before but this morning I realized I was beginning to have the same thoughts about Christmas shopping and suddenly remembered my own Excellent Advice. So here it is again.

I love numbers. After my husband served 6 years in military service; after 5 years of his undergraduate studies; after many years of his graduate studies; after 3 children, (all this time with zero discretionary funds), I finally began to notice a singular truth about my shopping: If I went out of the house I would spend money! That’s it! It was as simple as that! To resist the urge to shop, I would make a cup of coffee, grab a cookie, and wait for the urge to pass….and it would pass. Yay! Just think how much money I saved today, I would think. Perhaps the thought of taking three little children along with my shopping trip had something to do with deciding to “…just stay home.” Maybe.

Fast forward to today with the convenience of online shopping at my fingertips. Remember I said that I love it. Well, I’ve learned something about that, too; If I fill out all the necessary information in the Shopping Cart…i.e. the mailing address, credit card number, on and on, I’ll probably make a mistake and have to delete the whole thing. I’m usually so aggravated and bored by that time, I go find something else more fun to do. Yay! Just think how much money I saved today.

Recently while shopping online at a fancy store website, I came to the final bottom line stating the cost, it was really low….yes LOW! I thought how can that be? I just ordered some expensive items, jackets, sweaters, etc. I pondered this for a while and decided to start over by going back to the homepage of the store. Oh! I see it now….in big bold letters it read “EVERYTHING 70% OFF TODAY.” That answered my question and confirmed my growing suspicion that I am the world’s worst shopper. Yes, I started over and bought all the same things I wanted as before. Oops! I didn’t save any money that day.

You might also find it helpful to know that if you are traveling with all your children and you are on a tight budget……don’t stop the car……ever! It will cost you money if you do. I’ve tested that theory before, in fact, we’ve lived it. However, I’ll admit it is a little difficult if you are trying to get to Lubbock, Texas from Houston, Texas in one day. At last count it is almost 600 miles.

Friends, that is the extent of my shopping advice gleaned through hard-earned experience and a lot of fun. Get a cup of coffee and a cookie….and wait.

Merry Christmas, one and all. With praises to Our Lord Jesus Christ as we celebrate His birthday.

‘Til He Shouts!



Note: I first published this a few years back, but truth is truth and always valuable….just like really good advice.

My New Year’s Resolution for December



We have come to the most blessed month of the year, December…the month in which our Lord Jesus Christ’s birth is observed. Regardless of all the commercialism surrounding us at this time of year, the Lord’s coming is still remembered and honored in many places and in many ways. Glory!

The very thought that the glorious Second Person of The Trinity made a decision to take on human form and come into the realm of mankind is almost beyond comprehension. But it happened……and we celebrate. It happened and mankind beheld His glory, as best they could. When Daniel, the great prophet, saw an angel, he fell to the ground completely stunned, dazed and helpless. Try to imagine by comparison; what will it be like when we see our Lord Jesus Christ in ALL His glory. I think we will be able to witness that only because we will be in our resurrected bodies, not our old human bodies.

Nevertheless, John and the other Apostles saw our Lord’s glory in their day.

“The word became flesh and made His dwelling among us. We have seen His glory, the glory of the

One and Only, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth.”

John 1:14

This has long been my favorite Christmas scripture. It will be my last, monthly New Year’s resolution to observe. I will post it next to my computer and consider it daily.

‘Til He Shouts!